Aries Update: 12/31/12

It reads and I quote: If you feel restricted and can pin it on a certain reason or person, consider yourself lucky. Most people don't realize how they are being limited. This fits me to a tee, I do feel that I just want to spread my wings and fly, and what I am doing in my life is getting old and I want to do other things, knowing the reasons does not mean that you could change your whole life overnight though! I know the reasons that is for sure, but what are my capabilities of doing what I want to do is the questions I need to address first and foremost in my life! Restless, yes that I know, what I need to do about it is the problem I need to solve.

Alfonso's Meatballs!!!

Alfonso's Homestyle Italian meatballs!

Alfonso's meatballs will be sold at Big Al's deli (south wood ave. Linden) beginning Jan, 15th and remember Big Al's has the best subs in town.

Merry Christmas!

Well guys, it is here, I just love this time of year, some humbugs ask me why and I say because it is the only time of the year when people are united and full of love and kindness for each other! If everyday could be like Christmas time the world would be a better place! I hope all your dreams and wishes come true and you all have a wonderful holiday!

Angels!

I sit here and try to go about my day, I do fine and than waves of saddest overwhelm me time and time again!  I did not know any of the loss souls that perished in the Sandy Hook elementary school, like so many of us but now they are a part of me !  Holidays are around the corner and we all have to go about our business, celebrate, smile, go on as always, that is the way of life, the old saying is life goes on, no ifs and buts about it.  My promise to myself is that each and every time I feel sad, I will remember all the angels smiling down on me, I will feel their hugs and warmth all around me and let them bring light and happiness into my life. I feel, that God would have never taken them away, for no reason at all, I have to believe there is a purpose and a reason. I believe in angels, and it comforts my soul to know that 27 more beautiful angels will be opening their wings and give warmth to my heart and soul. 

To give!

I love being a giver, always have been and always will!  I like to see happiness and joy!  When we were growing up, my mom did her best with giving as much as she could for the holidays to her children and those she loved.  I learned at a young age what it was like not to have what others had.  Looking back on that, I now know it is what made me the type of person I am and I would not want it any other way! I learned by giving in the long run, fulfills your heart a lot more!  Thank you mom for all you have instilled in me, you were the kindest person I have ever known and taught me well!  I love you always and forever!  Till we meet again in the heavens forever and ever!  xxoo

Disrespect vs.Bad temper!

I had a long conversation with a friend , about the difference of a bad temper vs disrespect, my opinion is a bad temper is when you get cut of driving a car and you curse your ass off or have no patience and fit out at an object not a physical human being!  Disrespect is something all together different, that is when you are a person who just uses the excuse of having no patience and is just down out rude, arrogant and just a plain rotten individual.  By the time the conversation was over they agreed more with me than before,  examples helped also, and I have quite a few to talk about!