Doctors appointment!

Well off to see Doctor at 5:30 today and hope the news is that I could put off any operation until Sept. at least!  I will promise to be very careful of not picking up any heavy objects for sure!  I really hate all this stuff, why can't things just run smoothly, I know, it would be way to easy for that!  LOL  Have to see Doctors 2 times this week and next week, Monday and than Friday for them to check out my band to make sure all is okay with that!  What a pain in the butt this is. I love when I am in top form and healthy as an ox, but we all know that is not always the situation!  It sucks to get old!  What am I saying, I could have gotten a hernia at 28 yrs old too. Being 56 is not the end of the world, I still have a few more good years before everything starts shutting down, I hope! Think positive Fran, thing all will be fine!

Day almost over!

I have a nice relaxing weekend, which is a good thing with my hernia acting up! Doctor told me plain and simple, be careful and that is my plan.  If weather is nice, tomorrow might get a little sun, since I am white as a ghost and need a little color!  Pain in side has calm down and I am hoping I could push operation back to at least Sept. which will be better in the long run!  Its all up to the Doctor and what she sees, and if I promise to be real careful I could get away with it!  I hope!!! 

Kids, right from wrong!

One of my blogger Friends brought to my attention, that not all parents are to blame, and in all honesty he or she is right!  In a fit of anger I wrote about the parents being to blame, I guess I figured a parent knows their child's particular personalities and would know if their child would be that way because it is hard to hide rudeness or any other trait that they might have.  But my blogger friend is right, kids know what is right from wrong and should be held responsible for their own actions.  But I do feel guidance from parents and showing them right from wrong is the responsibility of a parent!  Now, them following it is not always a parents fault! So to all parents out there, when a child reaches a certain age, right from wrong is not a question anymore but plain common sense!  Thank You blogger friend for reminding me of that!  Just plain out need to vent!

Respect!

Crazy ass kids, no respect.. When I look at that video of the older women getting harassed on the school bus and being treated with no respect at all, it makes me sick to my stomach.  Who is raising these kids and what type of people are they, that they don't tell there kids, you do not treat people like that!
I have to wonder at all if they were even disciplined by their own parents and I hope to hell that they were from outside sources.  They for sure should be, no one should get away with that type of behavior, the elderly for sure or any other human being!  I am not a perfect parent, and make no claims to be.  But if my son ever and I mean ever treated anyone like that, he could be twenty years old even I would not tolerate that type of behavior and a smack would be in order.  If you think that is abuse so be it, I don't, abuse is looking at the women on the bus and seeing her so upset and alone. Grow up kids because one day you are going to be that age, sooner than you think.

Hot Hot real Hot!

Summer is here for sure, I live in New Jersey and right now it is 97 degrees, am I ready for this, heck no! I like winter around  Christmas time and that's it. Love summer when it is in the low 80's and spring when it feels like spring, My complete favorite time of the year is fall, I love, love love it!   It starts off all the holidays and love the colors of the leaves and foliage!  Such a beautiful time of year!!  This hot weather is not enjoyable to me unless your a fish and love to be in the water!  I use to like to tan, but when you get to my age you try to stay out of the sun so you don't age more!  The young girls of today look so pretty with the tans, the problem is that when they get to be my age, they will look even older than me!  I am so glad I got that when I was younger and took care of my skin.  We were having dinner in a restaurant and these two women walk in with such deep tans and there skin was a mass of wrinkles, they had on beautiful clothes and you could tell they had money, but there skin was just awful! They thought they looked good, but truth be told they did not, there skin was so damaged I felt bad for them to be honest!  Being the vain type I am (only being honest with you)  I want to grow old gracefully, but I don't want all the wrinkles on the face!  I know, it will all catch up in the end, but please just a while longer.  LOL!!!

Official!

Its official Rob is now a High School Graduate, and now onto the College years and much success in all his future endeavors.  I know he could do it and we will be behind him 100%.  Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaa, Like all other parents out there, we unite to make sure our children achieve there dreams, that is my purpose in life and I am sure it is most parents goal to give their child a future in life!!!  I could not be anymore prouder than I am in him than right at this moment!  On to the future Rob and may all your dreams come true!

Almost a 2012 Graduate!

Heading in 2 hours to graduation for Robbie, so proud of him! Its great being a mom!!  Short but oh so sweet! LOL