Still on cloud nine!

Still floating in the clouds, from all the weekend activities, even being at work cannot get me in a bad
mood! Look it is already Tuesday , before you know it, Fridays is here!  Not much to talk because all I seem to think about is our surprise party!  I was saying a few minutes ago that work could not even ruin my day, but something just blew in that really could change all that! LOL. You know what life is good, even if it is not an everyday thing but when all is said and done, there will be a silver lining in the end, I promise you I will make sure of it!

The suprise of our life! (thank you son)

How could I put this, I have to be one of the most proudest moms in the world, on Saturday we (my husband and self) thought we were going to a surprise Birthday party in a hall. When the doors opened up it turned out to be a party for our 30th wedding anniversary!  My husbands mouth was open and all I could do was cry!  We never in our life would have thought that our son Robbie (who is only 19years old) would take it upon himself and set forth his plans on putting this party together and making sure it was a huge surprise with help from family!  It is not that we do not know we have a great kid who cares about family and friends, it is that he is young  a boy which usually the girls of the family always put together the surprises for the moms and dads!  People all night were saying what a great kid he is and we raised him good!  I truly thank you all, but I have to give the credit to Robbie, with being who he is from within which makes him the person he is!  We Love you dear son of ours and we are truly are blessed to have you in our life!  To all friends and family thank you for sharing in a special moment in our life's that was a surprise of a lifetime for me and my husband! 

Aries (Horoscope update( 10-12-12

It reads and I quote: Once in a while, you suspect that being good is seriously overrated.  I really do agree with this one, nice people majority of the time do finish last!  Now mine you there are lucky nice people who have surrounded themselves with other nice people, I on the other hand have not always been so lucky (which I again can not say, but one day I might) being nice for me has sometimes only given me a headache and heartache.  You see when your nice, people will take advantage of you, you will be the punt of a joke because you try to hard or something might come out the wrong way, you try to make people laugh with you, the next thing you know they are laughing at you! Loads of bad people succeed, why because they put this facade in front of them and be something or someone they really are not!  They are the furthest thing from being who or what they really are!  I do not want to say what they are (not nice words at all)but if you good read my mine, you pretty much would guess it, for sure (lol). I have had plenty of experiences of not nice people, and I have learned by experience that what goes around comes around and there is hope for nice people to finish first and not last!  Whats the saying every dog gets their day!  Believe me,its true be yourself it will pay in the long run! On that note have a great and wonderful weekend!

Fall, Friday, fun and memories!

What could a person ask for, Beautiful weather, its a Friday,and the start to a great weekend with football Sunday, Giants and 49's on the horizon.  Love weekends like this, no drama in site.   Since therapy, on neck the tension spots are less, thank the lord, which makes me a happier person in the long run!  After work today going to Trader Joes with the hubby in Westfield. It is such a nice town with a great shopping area with a lot of  restaurants and loads of people around on a Friday night patronizing it! The people of Westfield really do know how to support their town, which is really a good thing.
I have to tell you all, I just feel so content for once and my plans are to stay that way, leave all stress at the workplace and stay worry free is such a good mine set to have.  I have a lot to live for a husband who is not perfect (and neither am I) but no matter what I put him through is always there for me, a son that is really a great kid, and does what needs to be done (even if I have to ask him a few times before he does it) but if that is really all I have to worry about in the long run than I am one lucky women!  I have lost a lot of love ones, and the holidays bring back the overwhelming feeling of loss, but I get this smile on my face when I remember them and all the good times we shared!  Memories are special indeed!

Moving along!

That's what I do, just one more day added to the daily grind!  I play my lottery hoping like all of us, hoping  that when I look down at them my numbers will match theirs, LOL.  I know, I know but a person could dream right!  I will never give up that dream and I promise you one day I will get on this blog and tell you I hit it the big one!  Life is good and I am happy with what I was blessed with, but a little extra fun along the way will not hurt!  This week flew by big time which is good because another fun filled weekend is on the horizon and I am ready for it!  I like to give updates on my son, he still going strong in school and I am so happy about it!   Acting school is coming along good also and getting him ready for Jan. when his part begins, that's when he will be super busy!   Getting really excited about it!  Halloween right around the corner and getting ready for that!  I started buying the candy and it seem I am buying everything I like, not such a good Idea, I do not want the leftovers on this one!  Its funny, with the lap-band you could eat junk food but for me the proteins like chicken and beef I have a problem with! So promise to my self  "NO CANDY", repeat "NO CANDY" , okay who am I kidding absolutely no one! Later my friends!

Do you really care!

Hi my friends , sorry been so busy with running around and all, that this was very first time I have a chance to just breath!  I went to a college game in Delaware and had a great time on Sat. my cousins son did great!  Great weather for the tailgate party with family, was a lot of fun to reconnect with everyone! Did I tell you that, don't think so, having a senile moment, lol!  My 30th wedding anniversary was yesterday so we went to a nice restaurant called Autoro's in Maplewood NJ. They have all organic bread and cheeses and the best pizza!  They have this appetizer which is their own homemade bread with ricotta cheese and a drizzle of olive oil that was to die for!  They have a lot of specialty pizza pies, the one we had was called (shoot I forget) but everything on it was fresh tomato and mozzarella and all seasonings were fresh!  Awsome, for sure but because of Lapband I only had 1/2 of slice of pizza and 3 bites of the bread! Enough to wet the pallet so to speak!  Going on 3 years with band so do not feel sorry for me, I am really use to it by now! Lets say I never walk out of a restaurant over stuffed. LOL gotta go, till next time love to all!

Tossed and turned!

Had a great weekend and Sunday morning slept in late, the problem was Sunday night, all I did was dream of loved ones gone and tossed and turn all night! The good news is all I dreamed of was the people I loved and cared about the most, this blog is for them. My grandfather, the first man I ever loved with his warm smile I will never forget, My grandmother, who I cried for days on end knowing I will never see her in this lifetime again, My mom, my greatest supporter who loved me for me and was there for us all the time, God let you stay with us till we were grown and with families knowing we would be okay! My father-in-law, had a stern look but was there for you whenever you needed him. My sister-in-law Patty, a quite soul with a heart of gold, gone to soon, Mr Baird a big part of the family who would tell his jokes and make everyone laugh, even if he told them a million times, My dear Aunt Connie, she would be there for me in a minutes notice if needed and her Birthday calls to me each and every year to say Happy Birthday Fran, and to my Father, to all the what ifs and the could have beens if all was different in our lives!  Tossing and turning was okay last night I was with those I loved and missed the most in this world, the tears flowed even in my not so sound sleep, I know this because my pillow was wet with tears!