Kids, right from wrong!

One of my blogger Friends brought to my attention, that not all parents are to blame, and in all honesty he or she is right!  In a fit of anger I wrote about the parents being to blame, I guess I figured a parent knows their child's particular personalities and would know if their child would be that way because it is hard to hide rudeness or any other trait that they might have.  But my blogger friend is right, kids know what is right from wrong and should be held responsible for their own actions.  But I do feel guidance from parents and showing them right from wrong is the responsibility of a parent!  Now, them following it is not always a parents fault! So to all parents out there, when a child reaches a certain age, right from wrong is not a question anymore but plain common sense!  Thank You blogger friend for reminding me of that!  Just plain out need to vent!

Respect!

Crazy ass kids, no respect.. When I look at that video of the older women getting harassed on the school bus and being treated with no respect at all, it makes me sick to my stomach.  Who is raising these kids and what type of people are they, that they don't tell there kids, you do not treat people like that!
I have to wonder at all if they were even disciplined by their own parents and I hope to hell that they were from outside sources.  They for sure should be, no one should get away with that type of behavior, the elderly for sure or any other human being!  I am not a perfect parent, and make no claims to be.  But if my son ever and I mean ever treated anyone like that, he could be twenty years old even I would not tolerate that type of behavior and a smack would be in order.  If you think that is abuse so be it, I don't, abuse is looking at the women on the bus and seeing her so upset and alone. Grow up kids because one day you are going to be that age, sooner than you think.

Hot Hot real Hot!

Summer is here for sure, I live in New Jersey and right now it is 97 degrees, am I ready for this, heck no! I like winter around  Christmas time and that's it. Love summer when it is in the low 80's and spring when it feels like spring, My complete favorite time of the year is fall, I love, love love it!   It starts off all the holidays and love the colors of the leaves and foliage!  Such a beautiful time of year!!  This hot weather is not enjoyable to me unless your a fish and love to be in the water!  I use to like to tan, but when you get to my age you try to stay out of the sun so you don't age more!  The young girls of today look so pretty with the tans, the problem is that when they get to be my age, they will look even older than me!  I am so glad I got that when I was younger and took care of my skin.  We were having dinner in a restaurant and these two women walk in with such deep tans and there skin was a mass of wrinkles, they had on beautiful clothes and you could tell they had money, but there skin was just awful! They thought they looked good, but truth be told they did not, there skin was so damaged I felt bad for them to be honest!  Being the vain type I am (only being honest with you)  I want to grow old gracefully, but I don't want all the wrinkles on the face!  I know, it will all catch up in the end, but please just a while longer.  LOL!!!

Official!

Its official Rob is now a High School Graduate, and now onto the College years and much success in all his future endeavors.  I know he could do it and we will be behind him 100%.  Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaa, Like all other parents out there, we unite to make sure our children achieve there dreams, that is my purpose in life and I am sure it is most parents goal to give their child a future in life!!!  I could not be anymore prouder than I am in him than right at this moment!  On to the future Rob and may all your dreams come true!

Almost a 2012 Graduate!

Heading in 2 hours to graduation for Robbie, so proud of him! Its great being a mom!!  Short but oh so sweet! LOL

Hernia almost positive!

Went to Doctor and she is pretty sure it is a flare up and now for more test and most likely an operation, all I could say is thank God it happen now and not for my August vacation, did not get insurance for flight. I know stupid mistake what could I say!! Brains has not been a strong suit for most of my life why change it now. LOL  I hate when everything changes, not a good quality of mine for sure. I also hate the idea of having to get an operation again.  I know me though I will bounce back right away, I hate being idle to long, just not me.  I did speak with someone who said you feel much better in a few days, you just cannot and he said cannot pick up anything at all heavy. So this time I will follow orders for sure!  In pain right now as I write this, but there is no way I will miss my sons Graduation ceremony tonight, I waited for this day all my life and now here it is! Tomorrow I go for a test and Monday of next week back to Doctor, as long as no more issues come up I could take it slow!  It is what it is and there is nothing I could do about it! Think positive Fran is all I could say to myself!

Off to Doctors tonight!

After a full week and a half of having abdominal pains with not much relief in site, and managing to get through the party I planned on Sat for my son it is time for the Doctor tonight at around 6PM. Pain on right side is always there and me being the doctor I think I am has some opinions on this situation! LOL It could be one of three things no make that four things, 1) gas,  2) lapband 3) appendix 4) hernia. I know when I go there tonight it will be a waste because all they will say is you have to have test done!  I saw dread all that stuff and if the pain would have went away I would not even be going tonight, and my whole family would have killed me for sure if I did not!  Unfortunately the pain is still there and before anything happen like it bust or something I have to go big time! With the August trip around the corner, it will be hear before you know it can not take any chances of not taking care of this problem now.  So wish me luck and I will fill you in on results!!!